trans

An Open Letter to the Executive Who Quietly Cut the Coverage

To the executive who did it in a spreadsheet, There was no podium and no speech. Just a line item where the trans healthcare benefit used to be, relabeled something tidy like “plan optimization,” approved in a meeting that took four minutes. The people it covered found out the way people always find out about […]

An Open Letter to J.K. Rowling

Ms. Rowling, You say you are defending women’s sex-based rights, that you are not anti-trans, and that you reject the label. I am going to take you at your word and engage the argument rather than the caricature, because you are owed that and because the question deserves better than a slogan from either side. […]

An Open Letter to Matt Walsh

Mr. Walsh, You have made a career, and a documentary, out of a question you present as profound and a great deal of confrontation aimed at anyone who answers it differently than you do. The confrontation is the brand. The cruelty is not an accident of the format; it is the format. I notice you […]

An Open Letter to Michael Knowles

Mr. Knowles, You said, from a stage, that you wanted what you call “transgenderism” eradicated from public life, and then objected that you meant the ideology, not the people. I want to take the distinction seriously, because words matter and I have no interest in misquoting you. So here is the trouble with it. There […]

An Open Letter to Chaya Raichik

Ms. Raichik, From behind an account, you aim a very large audience at hospitals, teachers, libraries, and clinics you disapprove of, and then describe whatever follows as none of your doing. I have run systems at scale, so I recognize what you have built: a targeting layer. You supply the coordinates and let the crowd […]

An Open Letter to the Lawmaker Who Has Never Met Me

Representative, You have never met me, and you have written several bills about my body. I have read them. They are heavy with words like “protect” and “common sense” and empty of any sign that you have spoken with a single person they would actually affect. Legislating a life you have never encountered is not […]

An Open Letter to the Pundit Who Debates Me for Ratings

Anchor, You found a reliable formula: seat someone who thinks I deserve rights beside someone who is not sure, point a camera at the friction, and sell the heat as balance. Six minutes, two talking heads, one settled question dressed up as an open one. The format flatters you as neutral. It is not. There […]

An Open Letter to the ‘Just Asking Questions’ Crowd

Concerned Citizen, You are “just asking questions.” I have noticed the questions only ever point one direction, and never wait around for an answer. They are not really questions. They are accusations wearing the punctuation of curiosity, and we both know it. Real curiosity reads. It sits with the medical consensus, listens to the people […]

An Open Letter to Donald Trump

Mr. President, I did not ask for my life to become a policy. You decided it would be. You have used the power of the office I am a citizen under to sign orders that declare, by decree, that there are only two sexes; to push people like me out of the military we volunteered […]

An Open Letter to Ron DeSantis

Governor DeSantis, You built a national profile on a simple trick: find a small group that unsettles people, and govern against it. You backed the laws restricting care for trans kids and narrowed what a teacher is permitted to say about people like me, and you called it freedom. It is a strange freedom that […]